HPDBC Chapter 1330: A Discussion on Marriage
Chapter 1330: A Discussion on Marriage
"You're just bragging!" Jiang Manman clearly didn't believe her.
"Why are you siding with Huo Yanchen? Why don't you go and acknowledge Huo Yanchen as your father!" Jiang's father pretended to be angry.
"No, I don't want to!"
Huo Yanchen is her husband, how can he be her father!
Jiang Manman went over and hugged her father's neck from behind: "My dad is the best dad in the world, and my mom is the best mom in the world. I don't want anyone else, I only want you!"
"Then who do you think is the most handsome man in the world?"
“You’re the most handsome man in the world, and my dad is the most handsome man in the world!” Jiang Manman gave in.
Jiang's father smirked, "That's more like it!"
The family atmosphere is wonderful, so harmonious and joyful. If this were made into a TV series, I wonder how many people would envy Jiang Manman for having such a wonderful family.
In fact, Jiang Manman was very content because her parents never asked anything of her.
Some people are born into wealthy families and are required to work hard, learn various skills, and have very limited time, studying every day.
The Jiang family has none of these things. The only wish of Jiang Manman's parents is that she can grow up happily and have no worries in her life. Even if she is a good-for-nothing for the rest of her life, it doesn't matter, because they can afford to raise her.
As long as she doesn't squander money like Huo Yanchen, buying a bunch of useless things, or get swindled out of all her money by bad company, or act recklessly like that Liang family brat, the Jiang family's assets will be enough for Jiang Manman to live on for the rest of her life.
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The following weekend, Jiang Manman went to see Shen Yuan.
At this time, Shen Yuan's baby was already more than five months along, while Xiao Ning was even further along, already seven or eight months along, and would be giving birth in two more months.
At this moment, Xiao Ningtian felt that she was pregnant with a demon king who was definitely here to take revenge.
The main problem is that I feel all sorts of discomfort in the late stages of pregnancy. Sitting is uncomfortable, lying down is uncomfortable, and even going for a walk is uncomfortable. I really don't know what to do.
So Xiao Ning came to Shen Yuan to complain: "Ugh! If you had asked me to have a baby before, I would never have agreed. It would have been like asking for trouble!"
"Why do women have to give birth? Why can't men? I'd give him my uterus. It's so torturous." Xiao Ning felt uncomfortable sitting down, so she stood up and walked around.
Jiang Manman was peeling fruit nearby when she said, "After seeing this, I definitely don't want to have children in the future!"
It's so painful, and I have to endure this pain for ten months.
In the early stages of pregnancy, I often felt nauseous, couldn't eat anything, and had little energy.
There are still many prenatal checkups in the middle stage, and in the late stage, I can't even sleep well. It looks scary.
Who invented women anyway? It must have been so hard for them.
Jiang Manman had previously read a post about ordinary women. These women came from ordinary families and didn't have parents to help take care of their children, so they had to give up their jobs and become full-time mothers. However, their husbands worked very hard and didn't earn much money, and they had to support the whole family, so they started to get angry with their wives.
The wife felt exhausted after giving birth because no one was there to help her. However, her husband thought she was doing nothing at home and there was nothing to be tired about. Both of them had their own difficulties, which eventually escalated into a frightening argument.
Before marriage, who wasn't a carefree little princess? At least she could earn money to support herself. But she sacrificed herself for her family and made her husband happy, only to end up not contributing anything and just enjoying life at home. It's so unfair!
Moreover, many companies are reluctant to hire mothers with children. They feel that unmarried women who have not yet had children will waste a lot of their work time if they get married and have children, while married women with children will have their energy drained and won't be able to work properly, making it even more difficult for them to find a job.
Thinking about this world, there's an indescribable sense of desolation.
Therefore, Shen Yuan and Xiao Ning's companies have provided many positions for stay-at-home mothers. They are women, and although they can't help all women, it's good to help some.
Jiang Manman also mentioned the posts she had seen, which were filled with women's cries and lamentations. Jiang Manman also realized that the person in question hoped someone could save her and guide her.
But others are not her, and they can't make any choices for her.
Having been a full-time mom for so many years, it's very difficult to find a job again. I'm completely out of touch with the outside world, and it's too difficult to return to the workforce. So, I either continue living like this, feeling anxious every day, or I have to take a gamble, which might make my life even worse than it is now.
Xiao Ning said, "You can't say that. In fact, different groups of people have different ideas. Single people think being single is great, but those with children will revolve around their children and even enjoy it. Many people are self-righteous and feel that everything is for their children and that they have sacrificed a lot for their children, forgetting to find themselves again."
"So Manman, marriage itself isn't scary. What's scary is marrying the wrong person. Someone who loves you will only give you the best. If they chose you from the beginning, they should accept all possibilities. If it's really too tiring, maybe breaking up isn't a bad choice. In short, you are the most important. Be happy. Think about what you were like before you got married. Once you find yourself again, everything will go smoothly and everything will be alright."
Jiang Manman looked at Xiao Ning and Shen Yuan: "So, what about you two? Do you regret getting married? Do you regret having children?"
Xiao Ning laughed and said, "Look at the way your sister Shen Yuan looks, does she seem to regret it? I suspect she regrets not meeting Bo Qing sooner."
Shen Yuan rested her chin on her hand: "There's nothing I can do, I'm just lucky!"
Jiang Manman said, "That's because my sister Shen Yuan is outstanding. Even if she's alone, she can definitely live a good life. If she meets the right person, her life will be even better. Look at my parents, they're both in their forties or fifties, and they're still so loving. They even show their affection in front of me every day."
Shen Yuan said, "Because everyone is an independent individual, you should never think about relying on anyone, and you should never lose your initiative. If you can't live without someone, what if they don't want you anymore? If you can control your own life, even if someone doesn't want you one day, you can get away at any time and maybe even live a better life."
"Look at how many successful women they are, they all developed their careers after divorce and became very successful. They gave up a lot for their families when they got married, even in the entertainment industry or wealthy families."
The three of them were chatting when Bo Qing and Mo Shi came out of the study.
Bo Qing frowned slightly: "Who is trying to get my wife to divorce me?"
How come he heard his wife wanted a divorce to pursue her own career as soon as he came out?